I know that it will save associations when autosave: true
as per https://api.rubyonrails.org/classes/ActiveRecord/AutosaveAssociation.html
Not sure if this will help anyone else, but I recently ran into a similar issue recently in Rails 5.2.
When trying to save an object 2 layers deep my tests failed if the top level and the first level objects had already been saved. Ie.
book_cover.persisted? == true
book_cover.book.persisted? == true
page = book_cover.book.pages.new
page.persisted? == false
# After saving the top level object
book_cover.save
page.persisted? == false
# After saving the immediate parent of page
book_cover.book.save
page.persisted? == true
Since the parent "book cover" wasn't the direct parent of the new object "page" saving "book cover" didn't actually end up saving the "page" object.
Depending on the situation I just explicitly called save on the "book" object to save all the child objects.
Unfortunately there are no such thing like associations_to_save. However there are some rules saying what is being saved when. You can find those here: http://guides.rubyonrails.org/association_basics.html. Points: 4.1.5 (belongs_to), 4.2.5 (has_one), 4.3.4 (has_many) and 4.4.4 (habtm).
UPDATE:
In case of has_many association, the child is saved on saving the parent if child.new_record? returns true (child was not yet saved to db), or the foreign_key column needs to be updated. This is why: