Your question largely hinges on sub-questions that aren't purely technical, since in purely technical terms there's very unlikely to be any real performance difference between your two proposed solutions. The questions you need to be asking are along the following lines:
1) Which language do I have the most experience with?
2) Which language am I more comfortable writing in?
3) If I were to bring more people onto the project, how would they answer the previous two questions?
4) Which language has better/more comprehensive libraries for handling the common tasks that will arise in my project?
5) Which language/environment is more likely to be found/easier to set up in most hosting environments that I'd consider for my project in the early stages.
Don't even think of asking yourself "which technology stack would be best if my project became the next Facebook?". IF you're ever lucky enough to reach that point, you won't be using the same tech stack you started out with. Do not try to optimize prematurely.