On OSX, the man page for ln says you can do it like this
ln -shf /location/to/link link name
From the man page:
The options are as follows:
-F If the target file already exists and is a directory, then remove it so that the link may occur. The -F
option should be used with either -f or -i options. If none is specified, -f is implied. The -F option is
a no-op unless -s option is specified.
-h If the target_file or target_dir is a symbolic link, do not follow it. This is most useful with the -f
option, to replace a symlink which may point to a directory.
-f If the target file already exists, then unlink it so that the link may occur. (The -f option overrides any
previous -i options.)
-i Cause ln to write a prompt to standard error if the target file exists. If the response from the standard
input begins with the character `y' or `Y', then unlink the target file so that the link may occur. Other-
wise, do not attempt the link. (The -i option overrides any previous -f options.)
-n Same as -h, for compatibility with other ln implementations.
-s Create a symbolic link.
-v Cause ln to be verbose, showing files as they are processed.