Basically I want to display a hosts external public facing IP address regardless of whether or not it is part of a natted lan. What I\'m doing now is just connecting to myipaddr
STUN RFC 3489will do it, though you need access to an open STUN server. There are other sites (like myipaddress.com) that will report your apparent address back to you, but there is no "standard" service for this.
Every web server on the public internet automatically sees your external IP address. There is just no standardized way to "talk it back" as far as I know (e.g. through a header or something).
If you want to do this manually, just use one of the numerous "what's my IP?" services around like www.infobyip.com/detectmyip.php
If you want to do it in an automated fashion, the most stable way would be to set up a script on a remote server, and have that output the requester's IP. In PHP, in most cases, it would look like so:
<? echo $_SERVER["REMOTE_ADDR"]; ?>
(Here is a detailed discussion on how to retrieve the IP in various ways, but if the above worked for you once, it is likely to work forever.)