You need to use TabWidget : http://developer.android.com/reference/android/widget/TabWidget.html or http://developer.android.com/guide/tutorials/views/hello-tabwidget.html to show the buttons for the tabs if that's what you are looking for...
i answer my question: tabWidget is wrong and add LinearLayout:
<TabHost xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android" android:id="@android:id/tabhost" android:layout_width="fill_parent" android:layout_height="fill_parent">
<LinearLayout android:orientation="vertical"
android:layout_width="fill_parent" android:layout_height="fill_parent">
<TabWidget android:id="@android:id/tabs"
android:layout_width="fill_parent" android:layout_height="wrap_content" />
<FrameLayout android:id="@android:id/tabcontent" android:layout_width="fill_parent" android:layout_height="fill_parent" >
<LinearLayout android:orientation="vertical" android:layout_width="fill_parent" android:layout_height="wrap_content" android:id="@+id/main">
<ListView android:id="@+id/list" android:layout_width="fill_parent" android:layout_height="0dip" android:layout_weight="1"/>
<TextView android:id="@+id/empty" android:layout_width="wrap_content" android:layout_height="wrap_content" android:gravity="center" android:text="Loading"/>
</LinearLayout>
<RelativeLayout android:id="@+id/mainlayout" android:orientation="vertical" android:layout_width="fill_parent" android:layout_height="wrap_content">
<com.google.android.maps.MapView android:id="@+id/mapview" android:layout_width="fill_parent" android:layout_height="fill_parent" android:clickable="true" android:apiKey="0Ua9BENcUvNKEom7wvjrrtlCVIeJ9SNYAbLAkJA"/>
</RelativeLayout>
</FrameLayout>
</LinearLayout>