So I want my users to be able to restrict who may contact them.
There are several factors they should be able to filter, including Age (e.g. Must be between 18 - 29), in
You can try with this:
criterium
------------
user_id type value
1 AGE_MIN 18
1 AGE_MAX 29
1 INCOME_MIN 25000
1 INCOME_MAX 60000
1 DRUGS Marijuana
1 DRUGS Meth
No, don't store the values in CSV format in the database. Instead create a join table called user_drug
and store one row for each user/drug combination:
user
id name income
1 Foo 10000
2 Bar 20000
3 Baz 30000
drug
id name
1 Marijuana
2 Cocaine
3 Heroin
user_drug
user_id drug_id
1 1
1 2
2 1
2 3
3 3
A DB column (at least theorethically) should NOT hold multiple values. Unfortunately, there are some programmers that store multiple values in a single column (values separated by comma for examples) - those programmers (in most cases) destroy the concept of DB and SQL.
I suggest you to read about Database Normalization to get a start in organizing your tables. And, do your best to achieve the Codd's Third Normal Form