Have a look at the picture
This is how Share button looks like in action b
You need to use custom background.
This might help: https://developer.android.com/training/basics/actionbar/styling.html
Here is a more complet message :
In your style, add
<style name="_MidipileTheme" parent="android:Theme.Holo.Light">
<item name="android:actionBarItemBackground">@android:color/transparent</item>
</style>
drawable/action_background
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?>
<shape xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android"
android:shape="rectangle">
<solid android:color="@color/background_actionBar"/>
</shape>
@color/background_actionBar is your custom background. For me, it's the same background color as actionBar background drawable.