I have a fairly simple need to do a conditional update in Solr, which is easily accomplished in MySQL.
For example,
As of solr 4.0, optimistic concurrency is enabled via the _version_
field.
http://yonik.com/solr/optimistic-concurrency/
To enable, you need to make sure your schema.xml contains
<field name="_version_" type="long" indexed="true" stored="true"/>
and in solrconfig.xml
<updateHandler class="solr.DirectUpdateHandler2">
<updateLog>
<str name="dir">${solr.data.dir:}</str>
</updateLog>
</updateHandler>
With really custom addition logic like this, I find that writing your own client side updater works better. It keeps you from mucking around in Solr internals, which makes it easier to update in the future. You can definitly do this in SolrJ, but if you aren't a Java dev, there is probably a clientside library in your own preferred language... PHP, Python, Ruby, C# etc...
The rsolr Ruby gem (http://github.com/mwmitchell/rsolr/tree/master) makes it VERY easy to hack together a custom load script.
I can think of two ways:
UpdateHandler
and override addDoc to implement that checking.Remember that Solr is not a database, comparing it to MySQL is comparing apples and oranges.