Some apps have their \'Share Extensions\' enabled by default when installing the app. Flickr is an example of this.
However, other apps do not - OneNote, Wu
These apps have agreements with Apple. If you look at your settings app, you can see these apps that have agreements. Vimeo is another app with a similar agreement. As far as I know, there is no way to set your app to have the share extension enabled by default.
Note that I do not have Vimeo installed, but it's still in the Settings app.