I would like to provide a web tool that requires access to a large dataset. Preferentially, this R data object should be loaded into memory once and then be available for us
The OpenCPU API is stateless, there is no way to keep a process alive in between requests. But you can easily solve your problem by putting your dataset into a package, and installing that on the server.
You can use the preload
option described in the server manual, or use the /etc/opencpu/Rprofile
script to load the package with the dataset in memory when the server starts. That way the data will be will be ready to use when requests come in.