Is it \"better\" (more efficient, faster, more secure, etc) to (A) cache data that is used on every page load in the $_SESSION array (but still querying a table for a flag t
It depends on what you're session handler is. Your session handler could be MySQL, and thus the question would not be which is better, but how to optimize your session handling.
The default PHP session handler is files, but it can be changed to mysql quite easily.
If you're talking about non-user specific data, then just save it to the DB. Worry about optimizing if you run into problems later. It is usually much more beneficial to use a better design pattern then thinking about optimizing before hand. Design your code so you can easily use a different handler for storage, and you won't have optimizing problems later.
If it is user specific, use the session, but use an appropriate session handler if necessary.
If your data is used on every pages, and is the same for all users, I wouldn't cache it in $_SESSION (which means having a different copy of that data for each user), but with another mecanism, like :
If your data is not the same for each user (which seems to be the case in your situation, as you are caching names, birthdates, ...) :
As a sidenote : if you are doing the same query over and over again, you DB server should cache it by itself (for MySQL, it would go into the "query cache") ; so, it would not be as bad as you think, I suppose -- even if not that much optimized ^^