When dealing with threads (specifically in C++) using mutex locks and semaphores is there a simple rule of thumb to avoid Dead Locks and have nice clean Synchronization?
There's no practical cure. Specifically, there's no way to simply test code for being synchronizationally correct, or to have your programmers obey the rules of the gentleman with the green V.
There's no way to properly test the multithreaded code, because the program logic may depend on timing of locks acquisition, and therefore, be different from execution to execution, somehow invalidating the concept of QA.
I would say
If you determined to do threads or maintaining existing codebase:
A few words on how to avoid multi-threading.
A single-threaded design usually involves some heart-beat function provided by program components, and called in a loop (called heartbeat cycle) which, when called, gives a chance to all components to do the next piece of work and to surrender control back again. What algorithmists like to think of as "loops" inside the components, will turn into state machines, to identify what is the next thing that should be done when called. State is best maintained as member data of respective objects.
Try to avoid acquiring one lock and trying to acquire another. This can result into circular dependency and cause for deadlock. If it is un-avoidable then at least the order of acquire locks should be predictable.
Use RAII ( to make sure lock is release properly in case of exception as well)
One way to ensure the ordering that other folks have talked about is to acquire locks in an order defined by their memory address. If at any point, you try to acquire a lock that should have been earlier in the sequence, you release all the locks and start over.
With a little work, it's possible to do this nearly automatically with some wrapper classes around the system primitives.