There is no such a thing called reference to member in C++.
The language specification explicitly says in a note (§8.3.3/3 - 2003) that,
A pointer to member shall not point to a static member of a class (9.4), a member with reference type, or “cv void.” [Note: see also 5.3 and 5.5. The type “pointer to member” is distinct from the type “pointer”, that is, a pointer to member is declared only by the pointer to member declarator syntax, and never by the pointer declarator syntax. There is no “reference-to-member” type in C++.