I think it's because "object databases" are solving a problem that (almost)nobody really has. For simple persistence of object graphs, the serialization built into most OO environments is "good enough". If you want to do sophisticated operations on a subset of your data, then a relational database and SQL are a perfect fit.
Other than some fringe applications (enormous object graphs that can't be kept in memory, but for which the relationships don't simplify down well for RDBMS use), there really isn't any need for these tools.