I am using MySQL, I have a table that has 9 columns. One of them is the primary key.
How can I select a single row, by the primary key or column 8 or 4?
select *
from MyTable
where MyPrimaryKey = 123
If I understand your question correctly:
SELECT * FROM tbl WHERE id = 123 OR colname4 = 'x' OR colname8 = 'y' LIMIT 1
The 'LIMIT' keyword makes sure there is only one row returned.
Columns in SQL don't have a defined 'order'. Database systems generally keep track of an order for display purposes, but it doesn't make sense to ask a database to select a column by number. You need to know the column's name in order to query its contents.
The same thing goes for the primary key (which, incidentally, may not be just a single column). You have to know which column it is, and what that column is named, in order to execute a query.
If you don't know these things, or need to figure them out dynamically, then
DESCRIBE tablename;
will tell you the names of each column, and whether it is part of the primary key or not. It will return a table that you can read, like any other result.