I would like to confirm that the SQL query
SELECT ....
FROM apples,
oranges
LEFT JOIN kiwis ON kiwis.orange_id = oranges.id,
bananas
It is the same but it is ambiguous as hell with the implicit CROSS JOINs. Use explicit JOINS.
If you are joining in the WHERE clause then the results may differ because joins and filters are mixed up.
SELECT ....
FROM apples a
JOIN
bananas b ON ...
JOIN
oranges o ON ...
LEFT JOIN
kiwis k ON k.orange_id = o.id
WHERE (filters only)
Notes:
The situation is summarized at Controlling the Planner with Explicit JOIN Clauses. Outer joins don't get reordered, inner ones can be. And you can force a particular optimizer order by dropping *join_collapse_limit* before running the query, and just putting things in the order you want them it. That's how you "hint" at the database in this area.
In general, you want to use EXPLAIN to confirm what order you're getting, and that can sometimes be used to visually confirm that two queries are getting the same plan.
I've done SQL for donkeys years, and in all my experience, the table order does not matter. The database will look at the query as a whole and create the optimal query plan. That is why database companies employ many people with PhD in query plan optimisations.
The database vendor would commit commercial suicide if it optimised by the order in which you personally listed the SQL in your query.