I used something like this if($._data($("a.wine-item-link")[0]).events == null) { ... do something, pretty much bind their event handlers again } to check if my element is bound to any event. It will still say undefined (null) if you have unattached all your event handlers from that element. That is the reason why I am evaluating this in an if expression.
While this isn't exactly specific to jQuery selectors/objects, in FireFox Quantum 58.x, you can find event handlers on an element using the Dev tools:
General case:
Sources
tabEvent Listener Breakpoints
, and expand treeSimilarly, you can:
Inspect element
"event listeners
'.