Would long-polling work for what you want to achieve? You can implement the client-side in a few lines of regular Javascript, which will be lighter than any framework could possibly be.
It would also be trivial to implement it in ObjC (connect, wait for a response or timeout, repeat)
The answers to my question Simple "Long Polling" example code? hopefully explain how extremely simple Long Polling is..
Basically you would just request a URL as usual - the web-server would accept the connection, but not send any data until it's available. When you receive data, or the connection times-out, you reconnect (and repeat)
The most complicated bit would be server server-side, as you cannot use a regular threaded web-server like Apache, although this is also the case with Comet..
