Well, to build my menu my menu I use a db similar structure like this
2 Services 0 3 Photo Gallery 0 4 Home
With a database structure like yours, it is possible to build the whole HTML menu with a single query and without recursion.
Yes - I will repeat:
This is the approach I always use myself.
Pasted the code here - fully functional:
http://pastebin.com/GAFvSew4
Jump to line 67 to see the interesting part ("get_menu_html").
The main loop starts at line 85.
There are five "customizable" HTML snippets:
(The code could be cleaner if I hadn't worried with tabulation.)
SQL to create and populate sample database is available at the end of the script.
You can try and let us know your thoughts.
I would suggest that you look into pre-ordered tree traversal. There is an article on the issue at:
Managing Hierarchical Data in MySQL
Effectively, you take each page as a 'node'. Each node has a reference to it's parent. When you change the layout of the nodes (add a child, move nodes, etc), you recalculate a 'left' and 'right' value for each node (the article above explains this in great detail, with links to source code in php). What you end up with is the ability to very quickly determine if a given node is a direct or indirect child of any other node, as well as get all the child nodes of a given node.