Quaternions represent orientations around 3D compound axes.
But they can also represent 'delta-rotations'.
To 'rotate an orientation', we need an orientation (a quat), and a rotation (also a quat), and we multiply them together, resulting in (you guessed it) a quat.
You noticed they are not commutative, that means the order we multiply them in absolutely matters, just like for matrices.
The order tends to depend on the implementation of your math library, but really, there's only two possible ways to do it, so it shouldn't take you too long to figure out which one is the right one - if things are 'orbiting' instead of 'rotating', then you have them the wrong way around.
For your example of yaw and pitch, I would build my 'delta-rotation' quaternion from yaw, pitch and roll angles, with roll set to zero, and then apply that to my 'orientation' quaternion, rather than doing the rotations one axis at a time.