suppose I have groups of radio buttons like so:
You could do:
var numberOfCheckedRadio = $('input:radio:checked').length
//this gives you the total of checked radio buttons on the page
To check for only those specific groups:
$(':radio[name="rdQueen"]:checked, :radio[name="rdFruit"]:checked').length;
Example: http://jsfiddle.net/AlienWebguy/HzfKq/
Use the checked-selector[docs] to get the ones that are checked, and the length[docs] property to find out how many there were.
alert( $('input:radio:checked').length );