I would like to know how to update a table, with values from another table, by the trick is I need to set a limit because I have thousands of rows to update, and PHPmyadmin can\
It's rather unconventional , but it should help you in a pinch
SET @tmp_c = 0;
UPDATE
table1
INNER JOIN table2 ON table1.id = table2.id
INNER JOIN table3 ON table2.id = table3.id
SET
table1.remove_date = NOW() - INTERVAL 5 MONTH
WHERE
table1.active = 1
AND
(IF (table1.active = 1, @tmp_c := @tmp_c + 1 , 0 )) //This is to only increment the counter if the whole where matches
AND
@tmp_c <= 15 //Start ignoring row items as soon as it exceeds the limit amount
sqlFiddle
in this example I am only doing 5 rows, you can change the limit to 0,100
if you'd like
UPDATE wp_postmeta,
(SELECT oldmap,newmap
FROM wp_map
ORDER BY oldmap,newmap limit 0,5)as wp_map
SET wp_postmeta.meta_value = wp_map.newmap
WHERE wp_map.oldmap = wp_postmeta.meta_value
You can try it this way
UPDATE wp_postmeta t JOIN
(
SELECT p.meta_id, m.newmap
FROM wp_postmeta p JOIN wp_map m
ON p.meta_value = m.oldmap
ORDER BY p.meta_id
LIMIT 100
) s
ON t.meta_id = s.meta_id
SET t.meta_value = s.newmap;
Here is SQLFiddle demo