I am debugging an application with lots of threads. My breakpoints are set to suspend the whole VM.
When a thread hits one of the breakpoints, I then want to use Step Ov
NetBeans can resume individual threads. While in debug mode, you can resume a thread from the left thread list by pressing a small button shaped like Play (►) near the thread.
Currently there's no such possibility because it may lead to deadlocks. You may vote for IDEA-43728 though.
This feature was added in IntelliJ 16 (the issue CrazyCoder referenced in his answer was resolved)
More details here:
https://blog.jetbrains.com/idea/2016/02/intellij-idea-16-eap-improves-debugger-and-adds-git-worktree-support/