I have a domain controller installed on virtual Windows Server 2008 x64
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SQL Server 2008 Express x64
is running on Windows Server 2008 x6
can you check if you meet the requirements of this article? it works for me.
You have to enable remote debugging on the database. You could run the following to do that.
%ProgramFiles%\Microsoft SQL Server\100\Shared\1033\rdbgsetup.exe
Also, make sure you can connect to the remote SQLServer before you debug, since your logs point to a connection issue.
Once I disabled the firewall on both client and server, it worked.