I have an entity called Books that can have a list of more books called RelatedBooks.
The abbreviated Book entity looks something likes this:
public clas
Rather than setting the cascade attribute, I think you need to simply empty the RelatedBooks collection before deleting a book.
book.RelatedBooks.Clear();
session.Delete(book);
Cascading deletes is not typically done in a many-to-many relationship because it will delete the object at the other end of the relationship, in this case a Book.
This just got updated:
http://fluentnhibernate.lighthouseapp.com/projects/33236/tickets/115-self-referencing-relationships