How do you go about querying running processes to find out what folders or files they have locked? (i.e. you go to eject a drive and you\'re told that it can\'t be ejected becau
LockHunter is a great context menu tool for Windows.
One of the first things I put on my Windows dev machines is WhoUses. It's nice because it's open source too.
http://www.emptyloop.com/unlocker/ (freeware) has a special UI for exactly this situation.
Process Explorer will show you this. Ctrl-F will let you search for a file and list the process(es) that have that file open/locked. You can then close that handle using Process Explorer.
There's also a command line utility called oh.exe
available for download. See here for more details