Database Design for storing Chat Messages between people

Question

I am trying to build a messaging/chat system. which can store conversation between two people in a chronological order. Also if User A deletes the conversation User B still shou

Answer 1

At first I thought that when one person deleted it you could just turn either To or From to null but that would make you lose who sent the message or to whom it was addressed.

You should just add a field deleted_by which will contain the id of the person who deleted it or will be null. So when selecting records from the inbox you have something like:

Select * From Messages where to_id = MyID and deleted_by <> MyID

when you delete the message you check if the deleted_by is null, if it is you update the deleted_by field with MyID, if it is not (means that the other party deleted it as well) you delete the record.

If you want to have the same functionality for threads instead of messages (i.e. manage the conversation and not one message at a time) you should have another table (MessageThreads) in which you have the from_id, to_id fields, deleted_by along with a thread_id field. in the Messages table you subsitute the from_id to_id and deleted_by with the thread_id.