Is there a way to use IntelliJ when pair-programming? It would be nice to have the option in v7 and v8 but I would upgrade to v9 if needed.
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If you can switch to Eclipse you can try: http://www.eclipse.org/ecf/
Here you have some screenshots: http://wiki.eclipse.org/DocShare_Plugin
For idea, the most I can think of is: http://www.jetbrains.com/idea/webhelp/idetalk.html