here is the simple code: http://jsfiddle.net/YAFuW/1/
basicly i tried to use like this:
You missed get the id of the vimeo video:
var iframe = $('#vimeo-player')[0]; var player = $f(iframe); player.api('unload');
Example: http://jsfiddle.net/joan_r/dutzh512/
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