What is considered \"best practice\" for encrypting certain sensitive or personally identifiable data in a SQL database (under PCI, HIPAA, or other applicable compliance standar
I would add:
Keeping the IV hidden is not important. It's OK if the IV is public. Just use good IVs, which means, use a cryptographic-strong random number generator so that your IVs are indistinguishable from random.
Storing the encryption key separate from the data that it encrypts.
Add authentication to your encryption. For example, add an HMAC keyed with a second symmetric encryption key, covering the ciphertext. If you don't use some form of authenticated encryption, then your ciphertext could be modified, and you have no way of knowing (AES will decrypt garbage just fine.) You want any tampering of the ciphertext to be noticed.