I save 100.000 Vectors of in a database. Each vector has a dimension 60. (int vector[60])
Then I take one and want present vectors to the user in order of decreasing sim
Without going trough all entries? It seems not possible. The only thing you can do is to do the math at insert time (remembering that equivalence http://tex.nigma.be/T%2528A%252CB%2529%253DT%2528B%252CA%2529.png :P ).
This avoids your query to check the list against all the other lists at execution time (but it could heavily increase the space needed for the db)