I\'m just starting to get a feel for emacs, but I am frustrated with it\'s tendency to not indent when I press the return key. I know if I press C-j it will do it, but I can\'t
Try [enter], (kbd "enter") or (read-kbd-macro "enter"), they all do subtly different things ;)
Also, for me copy/pasting just works. Can you try running emacs -q, and see if it works? If it does, it may be a problem with your .emacs.
I also have:
(when window-system
;; use extended compound-text coding for X clipboard
(set-selection-coding-system 'compound-text-with-extensions))
but that might do something else ;)