I asked a similar question here which had some reasonable answers that may help. I'm watching yours carefully. I haven't yet found something which has really helped me, but I am very actively looking.
I think the mind-shift is the single largest barrier to stepping to concurrent architectures and languages and until that is cracked developers are going to stick with easy to learn MS style paradigms. For it to really become mainstream it needs to find its way into schools and be taught alongside C# and VB.
My answer to the 2080 programmers question is "concurrently".
