I have an application where many \"unit\" tests use a real connection to an Oracle database during their execution.
As you can imagine, these tests take too muc
Use an in-memory / Java database for testing. This will ensure the tests are closer to the real world than if you try to 'abstract away' the database in your test. Probably such tests are also easier to write and maintain. On the other hand, what you probably do want to 'abstract away' in your tests is the UI, because UI testing is usually hard to automate.
The Oracle syntax you posted works well with the H2 database (I just tested it), so it seems H2 supports the Oracle syntax better than HSQLDB. Disclaimer: I'm one of the authors of H2. If something doesn't work, please post it on the H2 mailing list.
You should anyway have the DDL statements for the database in your version control system. You can use those scripts for testing as well. Possibly you also need to support multiple schema versions - in that case you could write version update scripts (alter table...). With a Java database you can test those as well.
By the way, you don't necessarily need to use the in-memory mode when using H2 or HSQLDB. Both databases are fast even if you persist the data. And they are easy to install (just a jar file) and need much less memory than Oracle.