Doesn\'t an ORM usually involve doing something like a select *?
If I have a table, MyThing, with column A, B, C, D, etc, then there typically would be an object, MyThin
The case you describe is a great example of how ORM is not a panacea. Databases offer flexible, needs-based access to their data primarily through SQL. As a developer, I can easily and simply get all the data (SELECT *) or some of the data (SELECT COL1, COL2) as needed. My mechanism for doing this will be easily understood by any other developer taking over the project.
In order to get the same flexibility from ORM, a lot more work has to be done (either by you or the ORM developers) just to get you back to the place under the hood where you're either getting all or some of the columns from the database as needed (see the excellent answers above to get a sense of some of the problems). And all this extra stuff is just more stuff that can fail, making an ORM system intrinsically less reliable than straight SQL calls.
This is not to say that you shouldn't use ORM (my standard disclaimer is that all design choices have costs and benefits, and the choice of one or the other just depends) - knock yourself out if it works for you. I will say that I truly don't understand the popularity of ORM, given the amount of extra un-fun work it seems to create for its users. I'll stick with using SELECT * when (wait for it) I need to get every column from a table.