I am trying to simply load an entity, modify a property and then save it back to the database.
var db = new NewsletterContext();
var newsletter = db.Newsletter
Do not want to pollute your model with foriegn keys? Good! Read on.
Instead you can override the SaveChanges method in NewsletterContext.
Get all modified entities and using reflection, load all their lazy loaded properties and collections using the following sample syntax:
db.Entry(newsletter).Reference(n => n.RequiredProp1).Load();
db.Entry(newsletter).Collection(n => n.RequiredCollec1).Load();
It won't be easy as it sounds, but once you are have written it, it would feel so good to see it work seamlessly :)