I’m using ReadDirectoryChangesW to spy a folder, if I’m copying a large file to the folder, I can receive multiple FILE_ACTION_MODIFIED messages, it seems each time windows writ
This is a solution of a very hacky nature, but in a very hairy situation you can run a polling loop to check the size (or modified date) of the file. If it doesn't change for a while, you can somewhat safely assume that the file is finished copying.
EDIT: This is not the optimal solution in the average case, but consider that in the OP's case better solutions are ruled out by the problem constraints. Think about this before you think of downvoting.