I\'m trying to set up a custom mute button for the embed tag.
This is obviously an old question, but I had a similar issue... probably not the best solution, but I just placed the embed in a div and removed that div on the 'mutebutton' click, then hid the mute button:
mute
$("#mutebutton").click(function() {
$(this).hide();
var div = document.getElementById("soundDiv");
div.parentNode.removeChild(div);
});
I'm still a noob, so this may not work for you. But it did for me!