When I manually sftp using username and password it works fine, when using curl it fails. The same script will successfully connect to other servers with no problem. Because
Got it working, turned out to be pretty simple but would only work with the username and password in the url.
curl -v --insecure sftp://username:urlencodedPassword@somedomain.com
This would not work.
curl -v --insecure --user username:urlencodedPassword sftp://somedomain.com
Someone who knows more than me could probably elaborate as to why they 2nd one wouldn't work.