I do not understand well following topic since it is a bit ambiguous from what I read:
Exactly. Once you extend another use case you've reached the end of your current use case. However, you can have extend inside an if. Imagine the following.
1) The driver asks if his guests want Wendys or Burger King
2) The guests choose they want Burger King [extend to eating at Burger King (use case 5)]
3) The guests choose they want Wendys [extend to eating at Wendys (use case 9)]
An include doesn't end a use case, it uses another use case and then returns. An include is similar to a function call. You perform the actions in the other function and then you return and continue. You can also have an include without an if statement.
1) The driver orders the food
2) The driver drives to the first window
3) The driver pays the cashier (include handling a credit card transaction (use case 3)]
4) The driver drives to the second window
5) The driver gets the food
Notice that in the above an extend wouldn't work. This is because the driver still needs to go to the second window and get the food. If we extended to use case 3 then we would never return to this use case.