I have 3 tables
friends
posts
members
friends
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id, to, from (user_id\'s), status
there are 3 status\'s -1 = denied, 0 = no response/new, 1 = accept
I added a subquery to get all your friends since I assumed that if you have these records
Friends
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ID TO FROM STATUS
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1 1 2 1
2 3 1 1
and your member_id = 1
, your friends are 2, 3. right?
SELECT b.f_name,
b.L_name,
c.`text`
FROM
(
SELECT `to` friendID
FROM friends
WHERE `status` = 1 AND
`from` = ? -- change this to your ID
UNION
SELECT `from` friendID
FROM friends
WHERE `status` = 1 AND
`to` = ? -- change this to your ID
) a INNER JOIN members b
ON a.friendID = b.member_ID
LEFT JOIN posts c
ON a.friendID = c.user_id