How could one design a secure and “self-destructing” email?

Question

As most of you know, email is very insecure. Even with a SSL-secured connection between the client and the server that sends an email, the message itself will be in plaintex

Answer 1

There are so many different ways of going about it which all have good and bad points, you just need to choose the right one for your scenario. I think the best way of going about it is the same as your 'most common' solution. The trusted third party should really be you - you create a website of your own, with your own authentication being used. Then you don't have to give your hypothetical keys to anyone.

You could use a two way certification method by creating your own client software which can read the emails, with the user having their own certificate. Better be safe than sorry!