First of all, I want to thank you for your time. I\'m having a hard time getting my head around this problem.
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First, I would suggest using Swiftmailer over PHPMailer. But regardless, your issue isn't what software you are using to send your email. You should head over to http://mxtoolbox.com/ and see what it says about your email domain. You should have the correct reverse DNS setup, in addition to making sure you have a SPF record setup in your DNS.
It seems your reverse DNS is not setup correctly, at least not for koopte.be.