I am trying to figure out the offset of a selection from a particular node with javascript.
Say I have the following HTML
Just check if your selected element is a paragraph, and if not use something like Prototype's Element.up() method to select the first paragraph parent.
For example:
if(selected_element.nodeName != 'P') {
parent_paragraph = $(selected_element).up('p');
}
Then just find the difference between the parent_paragraph's text offset and your selected_element's text offset.