I\'m using the default settings for my mediaelement.js player, and my initialization is very basic:
$(\'video\').mediaelementplayer();
My question is: I
Here is a "hack" solution that will even make your page load faster.
1) Create an image (usually a screenshot of the video) in place of the iFrame.
2) Bind a click event handler to the image so that it creates an iFrame to the dimensions you require. (You can base those dimensions on the client's window size).