When we have a high degree linear polynomial that is used to fit a set of points in a linear regression setup, to prevent overfitting, we use regularization, and we include
The regularization parameter (lambda) is an input to your model so what you probably want to know is how do you select the value of lambda. The regularization parameter reduces overfitting, which reduces the variance of your estimated regression parameters; however, it does this at the expense of adding bias to your estimate. Increasing lambda results in less overfitting but also greater bias. So the real question is "How much bias are you willing to tolerate in your estimate?"
One approach you can take is to randomly subsample your data a number of times and look at the variation in your estimate. Then repeat the process for a slightly larger value of lambda to see how it affects the variability of your estimate. Keep in mind that whatever value of lambda you decide is appropriate for your subsampled data, you can likely use a smaller value to achieve comparable regularization on the full data set.