I have a number of different objects with a varying number of attributes. Until now I have saved the data in XML files which easily allow for an ever changing number of attr
A variation on your 2d solution is just two tables (assuming all attributes are of a single type):
T1: |Object data columns|Object_id|
T2: |Object id|attribute_name|attribute value| (unique index on first 2 columns)
This is even more efficient when combined with 3rd solution, e.g. all of the common fields go into T1.
Sstuffing >1 attribute into the same blob is no recommended - you can not filter by attributes, you can not efficiently update them