This question is covered here in great detail.
How do you measure the memory usage of an application or process in Linux?
From the blog articl
Valgrind can show detailed information, but it slows down the target application significantly, and most of the time it changes the behavior of the application.
Exmap was something I didn't know yet, but it seems that you need a kernel module to get the information, which can be an obstacle.
I assume what everyone wants to know with respect to "memory usage" is the following... In Linux, the amount of physical memory a single process might use can be roughly divided into following categories.
M.a anonymous mapped memory
.p private
.s shared
M.n named mapped memory
.p private
.s shared
Utility included in Android called showmap is quite useful
virtual shared shared private private
size RSS PSS clean dirty clean dirty object
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4 0 0 0 0 0 0 0:00 0 [vsyscall]
4 4 0 4 0 0 0 [vdso]
88 28 28 0 0 4 24 [stack]
12 12 12 0 0 0 12 7909 /lib/ld-2.11.1.so
12 4 4 0 0 0 4 89529 /usr/lib/locale/en_US.utf8/LC_IDENTIFICATION
28 0 0 0 0 0 0 86661 /usr/lib/gconv/gconv-modules.cache
4 0 0 0 0 0 0 87660 /usr/lib/locale/en_US.utf8/LC_MEASUREMENT
4 0 0 0 0 0 0 89528 /usr/lib/locale/en_US.utf8/LC_TELEPHONE
4 0 0 0 0 0 0 89527 /usr/lib/locale/en_US.utf8/LC_ADDRESS
4 0 0 0 0 0 0 87717 /usr/lib/locale/en_US.utf8/LC_NAME
4 0 0 0 0 0 0 87873 /usr/lib/locale/en_US.utf8/LC_PAPER
4 0 0 0 0 0 0 13879 /usr/lib/locale/en_US.utf8/LC_MESSAGES/SYS_LC_MESSAGES
4 0 0 0 0 0 0 89526 /usr/lib/locale/en_US.utf8/LC_MONETARY
4 0 0 0 0 0 0 89525 /usr/lib/locale/en_US.utf8/LC_TIME
4 0 0 0 0 0 0 11378 /usr/lib/locale/en_US.utf8/LC_NUMERIC
1156 8 8 0 0 4 4 11372 /usr/lib/locale/en_US.utf8/LC_COLLATE
252 0 0 0 0 0 0 11321 /usr/lib/locale/en_US.utf8/LC_CTYPE
128 52 1 52 0 0 0 7909 /lib/ld-2.11.1.so
2316 32 11 24 0 0 8 7986 /lib/libncurses.so.5.7
2064 8 4 4 0 0 4 7947 /lib/libdl-2.11.1.so
3596 472 46 440 0 4 28 7933 /lib/libc-2.11.1.so
2084 4 0 4 0 0 0 7995 /lib/libnss_compat-2.11.1.so
2152 4 0 4 0 0 0 7993 /lib/libnsl-2.11.1.so
2092 0 0 0 0 0 0 8009 /lib/libnss_nis-2.11.1.so
2100 0 0 0 0 0 0 7999 /lib/libnss_files-2.11.1.so
3752 2736 2736 0 0 864 1872 [heap]
24 24 24 0 0 0 24 [anon]
916 616 131 584 0 0 32 /bin/bash
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22816 4004 3005 1116 0 876 2012 TOTAL