I have a table like:
id name children 1 Roberto Michael,Dia 2 Maria John,Alex 3 Mary Alexandre,Dia
I would rather make different tables for children and parents something like this.
Table for parents
parent_id name 1 Roberto 2 Maria 3 Mary
Table for children
children_id parent_id name 1 1 Michael 2 1 Dia 3 2 John
.... and so on