I understand the syntax and general semantics of pointers versus references, but how should I decide when it is more-or-less appropriate to use references or pointers in an
Disclaimer: other than the fact that references cannot be NULL nor "rebound" (meaning thay can't change the object they're the alias of), it really comes down to a matter of taste, so I'm not going to say "this is better".
That said, I disagree with your last statement in the post, in that I don't think the code loses clarity with references. In your example,
add_one(&a);
might be clearer than
add_one(a);
since you know that most likely the value of a is going to change. On the other hand though, the signature of the function
void add_one(int* const n);
is somewhat not clear either: is n going to be a single integer or an array? Sometimes you only have access to (poorly documentated) headers, and signatures like
foo(int* const a, int b);
are not easy to interpret at first sight.
Imho, references are as good as pointers when no (re)allocation nor rebinding (in the sense explained before) is needed. Moreover, if a developer only uses pointers for arrays, functions signatures are somewhat less ambiguous. Not to mention the fact that operators syntax is way more readable with references.